Differences I Noticed While Living In France

In September of 2016, I moved to France to teach English at two high schools. I had no teaching experience and my French was so-so. I lived in the city of Rennes which is about three hours west of Paris. While I was there, I noticed a few things that were different compared to life back in Louisiana. I made a list on my iPhone so I wouldn’t forget.

  1. Grocery Store Cashiers - They sit down. They are not on their feet all day. They scan your items and then you bag your own groceries. You have to bring your own bags too, and if you forget they charge you a fee for using plastic bags.

  2. Price Your Own Produce - You price your produce so the cashier doesn’t have to do it at the register. Say you want three apples, you put them in a bag, type the number of apples into a nearby machine, and it shoots out a lil sticker that you attach to the produce. This makes a lot of sense when it comes time to check out, as the lines move so much quicker.

  3. Grocery Cart - You have to pay a quarter to use a grocery cart in the store. (I believe it was a quarter.) When you are finished, you return the cart and get your quarter back. This way there are no grocery carts just hanging out in the parking lot, blocking spaces and whatnot.

  4. Shaking Hands - I would go to the gym often. When someone new showed up, they would come up to nearly everyone in the weight lifting area and shake their hands. Whether I was doing leg press or dumbbell curls, said person would come up to me to shake my hand. This one time I saw a guy come in and make his way around the room, I started my next set thinking surely he would skip me, but nope. He waited until I was done and shook my hand.

  5. Dinner - At a typical French dinner: bread, cheese, and salad are eaten after the entrée. Not before. So it goes appetizer, entrée, cheese/bread/salad, dessert. Nearly every Saturday while I lived in France, I had dinner at a teacher’s house who I worked with at the high school. There were always guests and great French conversations.

  6. Dog Business - Typical scenario: A lady is out walking her dog. The dog uses the bathroom on the sidewalk. The lady leaves it right there on the sidewalk. I saw so much “merde de chien” on the sidewalks. You have to be careful when walking there.

  7. Dressing Room - Guys always have their girlfriends with them at the clothing store. They both go into the dressing room so she can see what he looks like. This makes sense too because your girlfriend or wife has to look at you so you probably want her opinion. I can never see this happening with some of the guys I know.

  8. School Day - Schools have a half-day on Wednesday. The other four days the school day starts at 8 a.m. and ends at 6 p.m. I’m not sure if those hours are for all students though.

  9. Smoking Students - When I would arrive at the school, the students would be standing outside in a designated area smoking cigarettes. So much smoking.

  10. Transportation - I didn’t have a car so I relied on public transportation. I used the metro and the bus system. It was fantastic. The metro made traveling around the city super quick. It was clean, safe, and not expensive. The bus system was excellent too. The bus would always arrive and leave on time. A lot of the high school students would go to the back of the bus. I enjoyed sitting in the first row on the bus so I could look out the window.

  11. Pounds - I lost ten pounds while living in France. I believe this had to do with how much I would walk each day. I’d walk to the grocery, metro, school, gym, etc… My diet changed drastically too. I didn’t cook rice and gravy or eat boudin or fast food. I did eat a lot of cheese, baguettes, and drink a lot of wine though. I ate so much cheese while I was there that I got constipated and had to go to the pharmacy to pick up some medicine. I couldn’t help it though because there were so many delicious cheeses.

  12. Wine - The wine prices were so affordable. I am talking bottles of Bordeaux/Côtes du Rhône/Burgundy for under $10. Many were under $5. The wine selection at the grocery store was huge. I would try a new bottle of Bordeaux nearly every night. I don’t think I bought a bottle that cost over $10. My favorite wine by far is Bordeaux. When my parents came to visit in the spring, we traveled south to the city of Bordeaux and went on a winery tour. We visited three Bordeaux vineyards. I bought a bottle of wine at one of the vineyards and saved it for the night when I proposed to my wife.

I know there were other differences, but those are a few I remember.

The Bordeaux section at a grocery store in France.

Some Podcasts I Like

I listen to quite a few podcasts every day and thought I would share a few of the ones I like. I have around 20 in total that I listen to but here are nine that I like. I usually start each day with the news. These are pretty short episodes. I listen to them while doing daily routines: brushing teeth, getting dressed, cleaning dishes, etc... I find you often listen to a podcast while doing other tasks. Very rarely will I sit or lie down while listening to an episode. Maybe that’s just me. Je sais pas.

I also listen to most podcasts at one and a half-speed so I can get through them quicker. It can be a bit too fast for some podcasts but works fine for the majority. I use the Apple podcast app. I do have Spotify but I use that app only for music. I started with the Apple app and I kind of like the layout of the app more than Spotify. Anyhow, if I’d have to suggest three to try I would say

The Daily, WSJ What’s News, and Smartless

NEWS

WSJ What’s News - I usually listen to this podcast in the morning and the evening. It delivers the headlines and business news of each weekday. They will often have one bigger story they focus on towards the end of the podcast. Episodes are 10 - 14 minutes.

FT News Briefing - Similar to WSJ What’s News. It’s more business stories of the day. New episode each weekday. Episodes are 10 minutes.

The Daily - New York Times podcast that focuses on one big story where the host interviews a guest about the topic. The episodes are well made and quite captivating. Episodes are 20 minutes and released daily.

FINANCE

Animal Spirits - Michael Batnick and Ben Carlson discuss the stock market, investing, and current events. They often have good takes on topics and can be quite funny at times. They are in their late 30’s so it’s nice to hear what other millennials are thinking about when it comes to investing. Episodes are weekly and run around 45 minutes. They both have blogs as well. Michael’s The Irrelevant Investor and Ben’s A Wealth of Common Sense. They are also great to follow on Twitter.

The Compound and Friends - Josh Brown and Michael Batnick usually have a guest and they discuss all things relating to investing and the market. I like to hear what Josh Brown has to say. He usually has a unique viewpoint and truly says what he thinks even when he is on CNBC. That is where I first discovered him. He kind of reminds me of a Bill Maher. Very blunt and to the point. Check out his blog The Reformed Broker. Episodes are an hour and released weekly.

On the Tape - Guy Adami, Dan Nathan, and Danny Moses provide their insights into the financial markets. Guy and Dan are the CNBC show, Fast Money. Guy is hilarious and has so many good sayings. He quotes films, songs, old sayings. A character in the film, The Big Short, is based on Danny Moses. Episodes are 45 minutes and released weekly.

OTHER

Sway - Journalist Kara Fisher interviews a variety of guests from Elon Musk to Ken Burns to Jake Tapper. She is straightforward and has a calm presence. Listening to her ask questions you can tell she knows her stuff. Episodes are 45 minutes and released weekly.

The Ezra Klein Show - Journalist Ezra Klein discusses politics, climate, society, food, race, etc... These are usually one on one interviews with a variety of guests. Two new episodes each week. Some of these episodes can be a bit dull depending on the topic so you may have to skip a few. But the interviews are quite in-depth so you can learn a good amount from them. Episodes are an hour or more sometimes.

Smartless - This is by the far the funniest podcast I listen to. I laugh out loud so much when listening. Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, and Will Arnett interview other celebrities, sports figures, journalists, politicians, etc... Guests such as LeBron James, Ricky Gervais, Sam Harris, etc... Bateman and Arnett together are quite a treat. The dry humor from Jason Bateman is the best thing. Episodes are 45 minutes and released weekly.

Grocery Store Shopper

Usually, once a week I go to both Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s. I like to buy produce, cheese, condiments, and canned goods from Whole Foods. I could buy most of that stuff at Trader Joe’s but I prefer the options at Whole Foods. Also, Trader Joe’s does not have the big salad mix boxes. It’s like $5 at Whole Foods. I like the 50/50 mix. If that’s out, then my second choice is Spring Mix. This mix will last me four or five days. I make big salads for lunch every day. No joke. Every day at work for the past year I ate a salad. I’ll have to provide a breakdown of ingredients that go into the salad. That’ll be another blog post.

I like Trader Joe’s for the wine selection, bread, random frozen specialty food, and a few other items I can’t think of. The wine selection is the absolute best. You can find wines from all over the world at affordable prices. I buy French and Italian wine there all the time. Good bottles for under $10. I also started dabbling in the Champagne/Prosecco area too but I’ll write about that in a different blog post. Though if I write too much about food then people may think I am a food blogger.

Anyway, I don’t know other people’s grocery store habits but I wouldn’t mind reading about them. Last thing and this is a must. An absolute must. I ALWAYS bring my own bags. Toujours. I will never use a plastic bag at the grocery store. If I forget my bags and they do not have brown paper bags, then I say “No bags please” and I put all the items back in the cart after they scan them. Pretty serious stuff.